My son has a lazy attitude!?

My son is 10 years old and questions everything, he doesn't listen and has a terribly lazy attitude, he is outside constantly playing football, he isn't lazy in that respect, he can't be bothered to try do his homework, can't be bothered to empty dishwasher, and even when playing for his footy team he doesn't try hard like he used to. I am worried about him as I don't think he can "think ahead" (consequences) and so punishing him by saying ur grounded if you do that etc he just does it, then complains about being grounded next day. If there is anyone who can help me please let me know. I am desperate, I know it is down to me but I need new tactics ect. Thanks all!

List of freshwater tropical fish?

I have an empty 10 gallon, 20 gallon, and 40 gallon tank. Could someone create a list of cool to look at but not to hard to find or expensive freshwater fish that could be in these tanks. And does anyone know some plants I could put in there too? Thanks

If I brush my hair after using Garnier Fructis Wonder Waves Shampoo&Conditioner, will it still bewavyy?

I bought the Garnier Fructis Wonder Waves Shampoo and Conditioner because I've always struggled getting my hair wavy. But when I get out of the shower and brush out the tangles, will it still dry wavy? Or will brushing it make it straight?

How long does your period last?

k im on birth control and i have to take it at the same time evry day but i kept forgetting couse i moved from oregon to oklahoma(different time zones) anyways i thought i started spotting but then realized i was on my period ive been on it for a whole week now and its pretty heavy still. im freaked out because ur not supposed to be on ur period wen u take b control untill the pack is empty. what should i do and if this has happened to any one plz tell me no and tell me wat u did.

How to handle hair while swimming?

Over the summer, I tend to go swimming a lot, but it's really hard to detangle my hair afterwards. I have thin, wavy hair. No matter what I do with my hair (hairstyle wise), it always gets very knotty and tangled. Are there any good detanglers and hairstyles that you can recommend that will minimize the tangles or help to get them out afterwards?

Do you think Twilight encourages depression?

I agree with you. Bella rejects all the ppl trying to be friends with her yet they still keep coming. In real life, no one would be your friend if you did that.

Saw a used condom in my daughter's room? What to do?

Yesterday our cleaner didn't come so I decided to empty the little bin in my daughters room and I spotted a used condom thrown in it. She's 16 years old, and her boyfriend is 17. They've both been together about 5-6 months now. What do you think I should do & how do you think I should approach her? I'm worried.