Why is my hair tangled everytime i wash my hair?

Whenever I wash my own hair it is tangled and whenever someone else does its not tangled. What am I doing wrong? I use pantene shampoo pro-v for the first two washes and then i use head and shoulders danduff shampoo (classic usually) for the third wash. Then i use pantene conditioner for my conditioner and i try to comb my hair out and it tangled and then when i get out of the shower and dry it off with a towel and its still tangled. Why is my hair so tangled all the time?